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Every journey changes you, but some journeys rebirth you.
I am living many lives in one lifetime, and I have learned that none of them cancel out the others; they coexist, inform each other and shape me.
I am the daughter who learned to dream quietly, the woman who later learned that silence would never protect her, the founder who built from nothing but conviction, and the migrant who broke apart and is rebuilding herself in a land that once felt unfamiliar.
I am the creative who stitches healing into fabric, and the public health researcher who asks difficult questions about women’s pain when the world would rather look away.
I am the advocate who refuses to stay silent, and the leader who discovered her voice at the exact moment she needed it most.
Somewhere between all these versions of myself, I realised something that changed everything: “A single story does not define me.” I am defined by the courage to keep rewriting myself, and this blog was born from that courage.
This is not just a space for writing, it is a home for the woman I used to be, the woman I am now, and the woman I am still becoming.
It is where my cultures, my passions, my wounds, my ambition and my faith are allowed to exist together without judgment or explanation.
The Journey That Brought Me Here
People often see the outcomes, projects, organisations, research, fashion collections, platforms, and leadership roles.
What they do not see are the nights I cried quietly into my pillow, questioning my strength. They do not see the moments when life humbled me so profoundly that starting over was not a choice but a necessity.
They do not know the version of me who dimmed her brilliance because she was afraid of being too much in spaces that were never built for her fullness.
They do not see the girl who loved deeply, failed loudly, tried again silently, and kept walking long after her strength had run out.
Migration reshaped me in ways I could never have predicted; Entrepreneurship stretched my capacity and my faith; Fashion gave me language when words failed me; Research sharpened my thinking and anchored me in evidence; Advocacy softened my heart while strengthening my resolve; Leadership matured me, not through power but through responsibility.
Every chapter carved something into me. Every season gave me a new language to understand myself. And all those languages live here.
Why I Created This Space
I created this blog as a sanctuary. Not just for storytelling, but for truth-telling. A place where I can explore the intersections of my life honestly and without performance.
Here, I write about fashion not just as clothing, but as culture, identity, sustainability and self-expression. Fashion is where my creativity breathes, and where my belief in ethical, intentional design continues to grow.
Here, I reflect on the work of De La Colina, across the UK and Nigeria, where community empowerment, dignity, menstrual health education and social impact are not abstract ideas but lived realities.
This work grounds me. It reminds me that leadership must always be accountable to the people it serves.
Here, I speak about ColinaX, a women’s health technology platform born from lived experience, research and the urgent need to do better by women’s mental and menstrual health.
ColinaX represents innovation, compassion and the belief that technology can be both human and healing.
Here, I write as an author. My books are extensions of my voice, particularly my work on menstrual health and women’s lived experiences.
Writing has always been a way for me to document truth, challenge silence, and leave a trail for other women searching for a language to describe what they feel.
This blog is not polished perfection. It is a lived experience. It is vulnerability wrapped in elegance. It is strength spoken softly. It is healing, written honestly. It is storytelling with intention and purpose. It is where my voice is allowed to breathe.
What You Will Find Here
You will not find advice from someone who believes she has everything figured out. What you will find are reflections from someone who has lived many lives, asked hard questions, and stayed open to growth.
You will find humour that surprises you, honesty that disarms you, lessons that shape you, and stories that remind you that you are not alone.
You will find fashion with soul, entrepreneurship with transparency, migration with emotion, empowerment with tenderness, wellness with depth, and leadership with humanity.
Above all, you will find yourself in these words. Because the truth is, every person who finds their way here is walking their own journey of becoming. I am simply offering you a mirror.
An Invitation
If you have ever reinvented yourself, this space is for you.
If you have ever started over, this space is for you.
If you have ever pursued a dream that frightened you, this space is for you.
If you have ever felt invisible, unheard or underestimated, this space is for you.
If you are evolving, healing, expanding or discovering your voice, this space is your home too.
Welcome to my blog. Welcome to my heart. Welcome to the beginning of a journey we will take together.
I am Osasogie, but you can call me Sogie.
A woman of many chapters.
A storyteller of many truths.
And I am honoured you’re here.